Love is not an outside source. It is not something that just happens to
you. It is not to be found, or sought after. It is already inside you.
You make Love happen to yourself by loving others and by being Love
2. Relationships "fail" because people are
searching outwardly for happiness and love. We are meant to share and
give the happiness and love that we ALREADY ARE, with others. In doing
so, it grows constantly and continuously within the one who is giving
and sharing it. Love is experienced by being it yourself. Love is
experienced from within which means the source of it is within.
Love is not a fluctuating unstable emotion. Love is not greed,
possession, attachment, jealousy, anger, blame,
pride, righteousness, vanity, apathy, shame, guilt, fear, control,
judgementalism, neediness, infatuation, or desire. That which is
selfish can't be
Love is good intent. Love is service. Love
is selfless. Love is trust. Love is respect. Love is good will. Love is
forgiveness. Love is acceptance. Love is unconditional. Love is
non-selective. Love is pure. Love is Divine. Love is Eternal. Love is a
way of being. It's the full blown radical forgiveness and acceptance of
absolutely everything, as it is right now in this very moment, always.
Love is the answer to all things.
6. Love is an
INFINITE resource. It cannot be exhausted or used up. The more you
give, the more you are able to give. The more you love, the more you
7. Love is a law of the universe. Nothing could
exist without it. Competition fuels greed and makes people fear for
their personal survival, which creates the world's problems.
Co-operation and living for the benefit of each other dissolves the
world's problems. The human body is only able to exist out of the
co-operation of the individual cells which make up the collective
community of the larger whole, and those cells can only exist in a
healthy state of well-being when they are provided with the proper
energy and resources.
8. Love is not the emotional
and physical kind between a man and a woman that most people know it
as. That kind of love is quite often based on greed, possession,
owning, attachment, jealousy, lust, and control, all of which are
selfish attributes, so it's not really Love at all. You cannot have or
own another person because we were all created to be free. True
happiness will never form in a relationship based on these things.
There is only one possible kind of relationship that works; one of
Love. All else is false and will not lead to happiness.
Life is about Love and neutrality. Not love and hate. Neutrality is a
form of tolerance, acceptance and forgiveness, which is Love.
Love should not be given because you expect something in return. It is
done out of selflessness. It's not about getting. It's about giving
with no thought of reward. Not even a "thank you" should be needed or
expected. "It is more blessed to give than to receive." Love for the
sake of loving.
12. In becoming a better person
yourself, you will be helping others in turn. This is a kind of selfish
selflessness that benefits oneself and all others, and is therefore not
actually selfish at all. Help others by changing yourself.
There is no longer a "special" individual to love when one loves all
equally and unconditionally. Nobody and nothing is "special" when all
is equal, and if all is equal then nobody is "more important" than
anybody else. Real Love is all-encompassing. It's not selective, it's
not choosy, it's not picky, it's not fussy, it's not judgemental, it's
not discriminatory. Real Love, when unobstructed by false individual
opinions, beliefs, perceptions, thought processes, and emotionalism is
unconditional and non-selective, no matter what.
There is really only one obstacle in life. Selfishness/vanity/ego is
it's name. All problems and suffering stem from the
selfishness/vanity/ego of the mind. If you can overcome yourself, then
there is nothing left to do.
Karma is a learning device, not a punishment. Karma is very beneficial.
It helps us come to the realization of what is actually
beneficial and what is actually harmful so that we can let go of what
is harmful and negative, and so that we can adopt what is beneficial
and positive. Karma can be of the positive or negative kind.
That which supports life by ways of Love, is automatically supported
because of works through karma and balance in the universe.
By loving "others" you will then be Loved and you will always receive
that which you need in life. Therefore sacrificing yourself, isn't even
4. You can only receive as much Love as
you give. By loving others you are loving yourself.
Evil, anger, aggression, and hate are not the opposite of Love. They
absence of Love. Love is being masked and covered up by false negative
perceptions, views, opinions, beliefs, ideas, concepts, and thought
processes of the ego/mind.
6. God is Love. Love is
the one and only thing It does. But It doesn't "do" love, It just IS
love. Evil exists because WE (ego/mind)
choose to create it, and we choose to create it because we are ignorant
and unaware of the truth. Just as Love comes back to us, so does evil.
This is absolute balance and perfection in the universe. If God
interfered and forced us to be a certain way, we would no longer have
freedom, and God would no longer be Love. God accepts and forgives all
for what they choose to be because Love is It's very nature. People are
ignorant and unaware of the truth because they don't want the truth.
People prefer to think that their own individual opinions and beliefs
7. Karma, balance in the universe, the
law of attraction, what goes around comes around, you reap what you
sow, everything comes full circle, or the ebb and flow, is in effect
100% of the time. How would it be possible for it to be in effect only
some of the time? EVERYTHING is karma.
8. There is
no such thing as chaos, accidents, co-incidences, flukes, luck, or
random events. Every little minute thing that happens to an individual,
or group, is the result of our own past doings and thought processes,
either in this physical
life, or in past ones.
9. In actuality, there is no
"cause" of anything. There are only effects and automatic consequences
of one's own past actions, choices, perceptions, views, attitudes,
feelings, intentions, opinions, beliefs, ideas, concepts, and thought
processes, which are based on unawareness.
key to realizing all of this for oneself is to let go of EVERYTHING one
currently "knows", to live continuously more selflessly, and to be
truly grateful for everything, thus becoming humble, egoless, and Love.
In order to truly know, instead of only knowing about, one must be that
which is to be known.
11. When you live a life of
selfless Love, everything becomes common sense. Everything becomes
self-evident. You will realize everything else is not of importance.
Everything besides Love becomes completely irrelevant. All fears become
non-existent. You will be set free of all troubles. You will be set
free of illness. You will be set free of your karma. You will learn
what true joy, happiness and Love are and you will feel them for all